Payanangal mudivathillai!

Opinionated, Judgemental generalistic pre-conceived notions pre-judge

Are these qualities as bad as people portray them. But i find a lot of people are judgemental opinionated and helluva lot of people have pre conceived notions about a lot of things. I am not saying I am not any of these rather I dont know which qualities I possess. But what I have seen is a lot of people posses atleast one of these qualities very few have none. Are these qualities something people just come up with or what?

For eg I have A has a conversation with B, and they end up having a difference of opinion by virtue of the topic of discussion, and A finds that the other person has the so called pre-conceived notions" not based on facts. So what happens for any subsequent conversations and discussions that A has with B, A ends up thinking that B arguements' are not based on facts. A's judgement is based on the fact that on previous occassions B has behaved in similar fashion.

Well as it turns out A might was not right in this time around.

Do u get A's predicament?

Would you say A is generalisitic and judgemental?

Now u might be thinking what next? and why am I writing this now good question?

What I feel is that as long as people are reasonably flexible they seem to accept each others arguement and keep going. The so called qualities like opionated, judgemental and all other sophisiticated crap is all crap, I have a general name for such people and ladies and gentlemen they are called STUBBORN ;

and another thing judging people based on differences of opinion is as judgemental and generalistic it can get or what ever.!!!!!!!!!!!!